Death of a family pet

really effin blows. Last Thursday my beloved cat got outside. This isn't unlike him, since he was rescued from the street he just loved being outside. He was my "wild child" so to speak. Always catching critters and bringing them to me. Just an all around sweet sweet boy. Anyway, we got out on Thursday evening. That night before bed I opened the door but he wasn't there. I figured he must of come back in when the kids where in and out that evening. No worries, I just went to bed. In the morning I asked my daughter who's 7 if she'd seen Casper. She told me he was in her bed last night. Hmm I thought and started searching. I opened every closet, looked under every bed. Nothing. He wasn't in this house. I shook food, called his name, did our kitty call, nothing. So outside I went. Still nothing. Since we live in Military housing all the houses look the same, so I figured maybe he went to the wrong house. I had my kids look around, still nothing. This was weird. The first thought that ran through my head was that someone stole him. He was a beautiful all white cat. Just beautiful. After contacting the rescue I work with to foster cats (she also gave me him)I decided to call it quits b/c I had to get the kids to school and run a few errands. He couldn't be far, right? Maybe he was just out being the little stud he was and looking for a girlfriend (no worries he's fixed, I'm a responsible pet owner). Later that night I had a FRG board meeting. My that time he had been gone 24 hrs. Where is this little turd at. Why hadn't he come home. In my meeting I get a call from the lady I foster for. She had gone to my house to drop off some paperwork. B/c I was at a meeting I had to ignore the call. But soon after she texted me that she thinks she found Casper. I was so happy I can't even explain. After asking where, I got no response. My friend was at the house watching my kids. I pulled into the driveway after the meeting to see her outside on the phone. She quickly hung up and I said "She found Casper, is he ok" the look on her face cut me like a knife. To see the tears in her eyes and her hand over her mouth, I knew something bad had happened. As I start to break down asking what, why? She tells me, he was hit by a car and died. I have never felt this pain before. I've never lost a pet, ever. I know some will think, sheesh it's just a cat. But we are cat people. Even my husband. This is actually his cat. Now I'm thinking how in the world am I going to tell my children that their cat isn't coming home. They are only 7,5 and 2. I needed to focus on the older 2 b/c the baby will not remember or understand. So through my tears I had to tell them that our beloved cat was in heaven with all the other kitties and puppies. They took it better then I imagined. They only asked a few questions and seemed to understand. My next thought was, oh great. I now need to email my husband who is deployed and tell him his cat was killed. I probably typed that email 4 or 5 times before I was able to see enough through my tears and write it the nicest way possible. The entire situation was just awful. In the end we were blessed with the most awesome cat ever. He was the prettiest and had the best personality in the world. I love that he would lay on the floor and I would have to vacuum around him. He was fearless and loved life. He will be greatly missed and is buried in a nice place with other cats. For now we are just left with memories. RIP my sweet boy Casper

Pinterest is addicting

So for anyone that doesn't know what Pinterest is, it's this addicting site where people can pin all the cool stuff they find on the internet. I'm addicted to all the cool crafts and home stuff I find. I say this pin about "Crap Baskets" for the stairs and thought I could defiantly use some of those for the kids. So I went to the dollar store got each of them a cheap bucket thing and put a label on it. I will eventually make better ones but this will do for now. Now the concept behind these baskets is they are to be taken upstairs and emptied then brought back down. My kids are 6 and 4. So we'll see if they really grasp this concept and do it. But all in all I thought it was a pretty neat idea. I have a list of about 100 more ideas I want to do. So if you haven't already, go check out Pinterest. I promise you'll thank me later.

What happened to quality?

So this past weekend I finally broke down and bought my 2 yr old another water table. I had to buy him a new one b/c the little hoodlums in my neighborhood came in my yard when we were gone and were climbing all over it and broke the legs off. This mom was not a happy camper. So anyways after doing some online research and reading reviews I decided to buy him this one. I didn't want to spend a fortune since the last one he had cost me $8 at a yard sale. So this one was on sale for 29.99 at Toysrus. Let me first say that while it's cute, it's a pain in the ass to put the middle piece on. The plastic material is so cheap and flimsy. My 2 yr old climbed on it twice and with his weight at a whopping 26lbs the thing collapse and the legs fall off. Then the little ferris wheel thing keeps falling off. It's hard to turn and when you put some elbow grease into it it pops off. At first I assumed like most things being sold, that is was made in China. Until I look on their page where it clearly states at the top left corner MADE IN AMERICA. So my question is, what the hell happened to quality products? What happened to Little Tikes products being made to be passed down to kids generation after generation? I see vintage Little Tikes toys that are older then me still with lots of life left in them, but the new toys being made are crap. The materials are crap yet instead of selling things cheaper we are being forced to pay prices not comparable to material quality. This water table will not make it through my son. I wont be able to pass this down to anyone. I wont be able to sell it, it will end up in the trash. I am not pleased nor impressed with this product. Shame on you Little Tikes for letting your products go to shit while your prices stay high.

Only during deployment

Is it that all hell breaks loose. My husband has been gone 2 weeks. In those 2 weeks I've had the sickest kids we've ever had. All 3 were so sick they were vomiting. Then they passed it to me. Now my son is sick again, that warranted a trip to the ER yesterday. Then after my trip to the ER and getting him comfortable at home, my youngest broke out in bumps that looked like chicken pox at first. I literally was thinking, why in the hell is Karma kicking my ass right now. What on earth have I done. Thankfully after some benadryl most of the bumps went away. I know we are only given what we can handle but man these last 2 wks have really sucked. I am so ready to get over this hump and move on. Sick kids are never fun, but dealing with it alone is not something I enjoy.

On a different note, my husbands ship is due to port soon. That means we'll be getting a phone call and will be able to skype with him. We are all super excited to get to talk to him. It seems like he's been gone far longer then 2 wks. We're so ready for this deployment to speed up. We got his first care package sent out and I will be starting on 2 more here soon. I'll be making another one for him and one for his shop. I know those guys would love some goodies. And I enjoy sending them stuff.

1 week down

Well I've survived a week. WATCH OUT! lol one long week. During deployment I try and figure out what the best count down will be. Do I count day, weeks, months, paydays what? I personally like days. They always sound better then months. My friend has choose paydays. We are almost under 200 days WOOT! Anyways today I started my first care package of the deployment. With the help of the kids we got to work. First we painted the flaps so our artwork would stand out better. Then we decorated said flaps then added the goodies. I still have 2 things to add then off to the Post Office on Monday. My son who is about to be 5 picked out Pirate stickers. Before throwing them in the cart he said "know why I picked pirate stickers?" I said "No, why" he said "b/c daddies out their chootin pirates" lol how cute is that. I don't think daddy will be "chootin" many pirates this time since he's on a much bigger mission but I just nodded my head as he tossed them in the cart. Sometimes kids really do say the funniest things.

Today is also St. Patties day. Lucky for everyone this chick is not Irish :) instead I'm a crazy loud Italian who's butt is sitting at home with the kids. I've never celebrated this day. But b/c I love my kids and they talked about St. Patties day in school this past week, for dinner I made them green eggs and green pancakes. They loved it but my 2 yr old was pretty unsure of his green pancakes and instead of eating them, decided dunking them in his Gatorade was a better idea.

Operation declutter

has started today! One of my big goals for this deployment was to get this house decluttered and organized. We have so much crap. I am a throw awayer and my husband is a pack rat. And some how we've created little hoarders. My oldest refuses to throw anything away (like her father) it get ridiculous. We're talking trash, paper scraps, random trinkets, news papers just random crap. I save her pictures she draws but the rest has got to go. The sad part is she doesn't even notice when I go in her room and declutter. So thankfully I'm not scaring her for life by throwing away her stuff. Today I'm tackling the playroom. The kids have more toys then they know what to do with and never play with any of them. I've already made a huge dent. I am determined to have this house organized before my husband comes home.

Off I go to throw more stuff away and add to my donate pile!

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